Ministry Question

I have accepted the position at Bruceville Baptist Church as the Youth Minister. I am really enjoying getting to share love with the kids. They are a good group of kids who need serious love in their lives. But we are having this situation there and I wanted to get ya'lls opinion on it. There is a church in Eddy, which is like a mile away from Bruceville, and they have a pretty large kickin' youth group. Well, the kids go to both churches and split time between the Sunday morning and evening services sometimes. It is frustrating to have the kids switching from church to church. My question is what should my response be to this situation? The pastor would like to speak on it and so would I. I guess I just want ya'll to respond to what are the important points of being a member of one of the churches. There are many other kids in the area so I am not going to try and steal kids from the other church. Please respond to this with anything that crosses your mind.